What to do when You're Single and Bored

I'm sure we've all had those days when the hours seem like years, and we just don't have anything planned out to kill that much time. It doesn't matter whether or not you're single or in a relationship, dragging days really do exist. Unfortunately, for the single people out there, it's much harder to find things to do to spend some time. So, here are some not-new-ideas you could try to work with (in no particular order):

Eat

Yes, we are all too familiar of doing this, and it's probably the first thing that came into mind while you were reading the title of this boring post. We tend to resort to eating because for most people, it's the default thing to do. Whether or not you're stressed or perfectly relaxed, busy or just staring at the ceiling or into nothing, this act of putting food through the GI tract is probably the best choice when you've got nothing else to do. Besides, as Freud postulated, the first thing that we satisfy as infants is our oral needs. So, eat, eat, eat!

Khmer Dinner at Phnom Penh

Watch Movies/Series

Don't want to binge and thus, gain weight? You could try catching up with movies of your liking. If you're not the movie-kind-of-person, why not catch up with the latest episodes of your favorite series, or, just finally start watching episodes of one of the most talked about series now? Get copies from your friends or download such from P2P, and you're good to go. Nothing beats a Lord of the Rings trilogy marathon or How to Get Away with Murder series marathon from fast-forwarding time. In this case, slow internet connection's probably gonna be your only enemy, aside from low storage space.

Not quite sure which movies to watch? For the hopeless romantic but wanting to have some LOLs... or not:

• Blended: the most recent movie collaboration between Drew Barrymore and Adam Sandler, this hilarious romcom deals with two single parents, who are just trying to get through life while raising their own set of children. They first met each other at a horrible blind date set up by their friends, and then later got caught up together with their kids at a fantastic family 'blending' retreat in Africa. I'm sure you've seen their prior movie team-ups, so you'd know what to expect. If not, see 50 First Dates and the likes. 
• Love, Rosie: this British romcom rocks, yo! First off, because the lead characters are English, and pretty much every word that comes out of their mouth sounds holy to thy ears. Second off, it stars the Hunger Games' hot Sam Claflin, and Mortal Instruments' cheeky Lily Collins. It's a movie about 2 best friends who've friendzoned each other, and then goes through a series of bad relationships and hardships in life separately, and then finding out that love sometimes takes time, and that no matter what, those who are meant to be together will eventually (hopefully) find their way to each other at the end. It's like the movie One Day, but with a happier, much more satisfying ending.
• That Thing Called Tadhana: this Filipino movie is about having your heart broken, finding out how and where to get the courage to start picking up the pieces, and then being brave enough to open up and find love again. This ultimate hugot or so 'much feels' movie stars Angelica Panganiban and JM De Guzman.

For the young at heart (and or even mind):

• How to Train Your Dragon 2: this sequel did not fail to follow into the footsteps of the virtues/values shown during the first movie. It's still about treasuring family, finding out more about who you are, where you belong, and doing what you feel serves your purpose most. It's about finding your inner strength and making it a weapon to defend those you love. After learning to live with and love dragons, the riders of Berk learn of the presence of the alpha dragons, encounter dragon catchers and a mysterious dragon rider, and set out to try to win a battle for maintaining peace for both humans and dragons.
• Big Hero 6: this Japanese movie is full on laughs and heart-touching moments. It's about the things that matter most (family, friendship) than having revenge over the people who've hurt us. The tale tells of an incredible bond between Baymax, a robot health care provider, and a technology genius child who suffers the loss of his family and now seeks to avenge them.

For the thrill/suspense/action + fantasy seeking type:

• The Hobbit - The Battle of the Five Armies: the third and final installment to the Hobbit trilogy shows the story of how Bilbo and his company defended the Lonely Mountain through a series of combats between five different armies all striving to conquer such stronghold and its treasures.
• Guardians of the Galaxy: let Groot and his company of weird, crazy and unexpected criminals-turned-heroes save the day in a series of comic battles against a fanatical warrior trying to take over the universe.

Out of the ordinary/mind-blowing movie:

•  Gone Girl: after his wife's messy disappearance, which was blown out of proportions by the media, Ben Affleck's character becomes the suspect to a murder, and finds himself uncovering a series of lies that got him to his position to prove his innocence. Also Starring: Rosamund Pike, and featuring HIMYM's Barney Stinson.

 For Series marathon, I recommend the following:

• Awkward (just finished with Season 4): sewn with really cool indie songs from MTV, this series tells of the story of how an unpopular 15 year old gains immediate, unwanted, and unfortunately, negative popularity at her high school when the student body mistakes an accident she has for a suicide attempt. Starring: Ashley Rickards. Looks familiar? You've seen this girl at One Three Hill as Brooke's adopted daughter.
• 2 Broke Girls (currently at Season 4): 2 young unlikely pair, one who's lived all her life down and below life while the other has had silver (even gold-plated with diamonds encrusted) spoon on her mouth since birth, team up for a business partnership (selling cupcakes), and then eventually forming lasting friendships. Starring: Kat Dennings and Beth Behrs.
• How to Get Away with Murder (just completed Season 1): a new mind-boggling series tackling criminal law, the whole first season is all about a team of aspiring lawyers working under one of the toughest defense lawyers/professors to figure out who was the murderer of a college girl while solving other cases each episode. Starring: Viola Davis.
• Suits (currently at Season 4): entering corporate law, a brilliant Mike Ross, who has unbelievably superb photographic memory, pretends to be an aspiring lawyer while working for one of New York City's most sought after corporate lawyers, Harvey Specter. These two take on cases and tear them down with a series of unconventional corporate law strategies. Starring: Gabriel Macht and Patrick J.
• Game of Thrones (currently at Season 5): several noble families fight over the throne to take control of the magnificent land of Westeros, plus dragons and the undead combined with sexual scenes/nudity and really gorgeous people, this series is actually the best of the best.

Read a Book (or something)

Prefer the solitude offered by the pages of a book? Then why not finally finish that one you've bookmarked at page 456 since like forever? Or maybe start reading another one just to satisfy your fill of words and use your imagination to recreate what you've read in your mind. This option takes up less electricity, and consumes less of your energy as well than the previous ones.

Write, or Doodle

Some people are actually getting hooked at calligraphy, even buying those pricey highly-specialized-for-calligraphy-artsy-fartsy pens. So why not write that favorite story, poem, or hugot lines into a piece of paper or wherever suits your taste? Work out those hands, doodle, and add color to them. If you fancy just coloring, there's this very popular coloring book that is tailored for adults, the Secret Garden, An Inky Treasure Hunt and Coloring Book. Check it out at Barnes and Noble.

Workout/Exercise

 Hit the gym, start being fit and finally get those abs! or... just maintain that already hot figure. Working out has never been so popular nowadays, and I'm blaming it on the rising trend of cropped tops and celebrities flaunting their perfectly sculpted abs in their mirror selfies post-workouts. Not that there is anything wrong with wanting to have some of those abs, I workout three times a week. But having abs is not the only benefit of working out. Here are some of the best benefits to help you be more motivated in donning those workout clothes you bought from Surplus, or for the rich kids, from Nike and the likes.

• Helps improve metabolism
• Strengthens muscles and bones
• Improves cardio-pulmonary efficiency
• Boosts mood, self-esteem, sleep quality and energy
• Reduces risk for heart disease, cancer, stroke, depression and dementia

For a quick read on the miracles of exercise/physical activity, check out Livewell.

Here's a quick workout for those wanting some toning:

• Warm up exercises (1 minute each): butt kicks, high knee jog, side step/2 feet lateral hop, stretching of neck, hamstrings and quadriceps, shoulder rotations, elbow lock
• Set 1 (3 reps with 1 minute rest break in between reps): 10 reps of push ups (if you cannot tolerate doing push ups on the ground, you increase the inclination and then just gradate as your upper extremities get stronger), 20 reps of body weight squats, 30 seconds of isometric exercise for abs/core muscles (full or elbow planking)
• Set 2 (3 reps with 1 minute rest break in between reps):10 reps of pull ups or biceps curl with weights (if you don't have dumbbells, use water bottles, etc), 20 reps of side lunges (10 reps per side) or step ups (10 reps per side), 30 reps of alternate forward shoulder reach while in planking position
• Finisher: 20 reps of mountain climbers and or 20 reps of shoulder press with burpees
• Cool down: stretching

Or you can opt to download apps like NTC (Nike Training Club) or choose any from these Top 10 workout abs.

So, basically, there are lots of things we can do during those stretching hours of being alone, I mean, single and bored. Reading blog posts like this one is one, as well. Well, anyway, no matter how you spend the time, so long as you're content and happy at what you're doing or what you've done, then all's well that ends well. And, well, nothing lasts forever, so this state of being 'single and bored' would prolly end too. (wink wink)

-xo